Rhonda Kay Hagenhoff

December 14, 1959 ~ February 4, 2022
She was born December 14, 1959, in Jefferson City, to Ronald and Lillian (Klebba) Cassmeyer.
She was married on October 20, 1979, in Folk to Thomas Clarence Hagenhoff who resides at the home.
Rhonda was a graduate of Fatima High School.
She worked for over twenty years for St. Mary’s Hospital at the switchboard and registration and in earlier years, Rhonda spent twenty years working for the State of Missouri Department of Revenue selling license plates.
She was a member of St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church.
She enjoyed sewing and color books. Her favorite times were with her grandchildren.
Survivors include her husband, Tom; her mother, Lillian Cassmeyer, Folk; four sons, Michael (Angela) Hagenhoff, Chamois; Matthew Hagenhoff, Folk; Mark Hagenhoff, Folk; and Morgan Hagenhoff, Folk; two grandchildren, Macy Hagenhoff and Ronald Hagenhoff; two sisters, Cheryl (Scott) Meyer, Cameron; and Peggy Cassmeyer, Jefferson City; and eight brothers and sisters-in-law from Tom’s family.
She was preceded in death by her father, Ronald Louis Cassmeyer; a sister-in-law, Alma (Floyd) Hile; and a brother-in-law, Bernard Lueckenhoff.
Visitation will be 4-7:00 p.m. Tuesday, February 8, 2022, Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home in Westphalia with a prayer service at 3:30 p.m.
Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, February 9, 2022, at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church with the Rev. Ignazio C. Medina officiating.
Burial will be in St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Cemetery.
Memorials are suggested to the American Cancer Society.
Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home in Westphalia is in charge of arrangements.
Those wishing to send condolences to the family may do so at the www.dulletrimble.com website.
Rhonda was one of the sweetest people who always wanted to hold any baby she saw. She had a magical power with babies and people, she always had a way of making everyone feel good. Rhonda will be missed as an aunt, and I pray for Uncle Tommy and all of her family as I know she loved them all. May Aunt Rhonda find peace and enjoy her new role as an angel in Heaven, she sure is worthy of the promotion even if it is too soon for all of us. We will miss you Aunt Rhonda.
Tom my thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. Rhonda was a good friend to me when we worked at Revenue. She loved life and her family. May God be with you during this sad time.
Tom, I’m so sorry to hear about Rhonda. I have many fond memories of working with her at St. Mary’s. She was so good with people, and her kindness was always appreciated. I will be keeping you and the boys in my prayers asking God to comfort you.
My condolences to Tom and family. I met Rhonda when she worked with mom at DOR many years ago and every time I’d run into her she always was the sweetest person. RIP Rhonda.
My condolences to the family. I met Rhonda after she had Morgan. Always loved running into her at DOR when needing anything. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Rhonda will be so missed. We had some good talks and some good times. Every time I would see her she would always want to know how the babies were. She was so kind to us and my kids thought the world of her. She would open up her arms and my kids would come running. She had a way with babies. Rhonda could have them asleep in no time. My kids are all grown up now but they still talk fondly on their Aunt Rhonda. Rest girl there is no more pain and suffering you have to endure any longer. Until we meet again.
so sorry to hear the sad news about Rhonda, Prayers for Tom and the boys, Rhonda helped me so much when we worked at Revenue, Rhonda was such a nice person.
I will never forgot this kind, helpful person. She gave many dedicated yesrs to St. Mary’s and is missed. Rest in peace precious soul. Tom you and your family I pray for peace. God Bless all of you. Debbie
Tom, I was privileged to know Rhonda while working as a Volunteer at St Mary’s Hospital. She was always such a friendly face when she worked with Outpatient Registration and later when she answered the switchboard she was always both cheerful and helpful. May she Rest In Peace. Keeping you and your family in prayer.ߙ
I met Rhonda working at St. Mary’s. She was the most kind and caring person not only as a co-worker but as a friend. Tom and family, you have my sincerest condolences.
My deepest sympathy to the Hagenhoff and Cassmeyer families. Carla (Feltrop) West Flickinger
My deepest condolences to Tom and family. I enjoyed working with you both at St. Mary’s. Rhonda was always a joy to work with and always a smile on her face… she will be missed.
My deepest sympathy to all of Rhonda’s family. She will be missed deeply. My fondest memory of Rhonda helping my Mom make coffee and tea for the various functions at Folk. I know that my Mom always enjoyed working with Rhonda. May she rest in peace.
Rhonda was a special woman. She had a way of making everyone feel cared for and loved. I first met her when she was a teenager dating Tommy. Their wedding was memorable for several reasons: my older daughter was a flower girl, my (then) husband fainted, and my younger daughter was so noisy I spent the whole wedding outside. My daughters loved their Aunt Rhonda. She was a sweetheart who will be missed by so many. With love to the family, Dena Ptacek
My thoughts and prayers to Tom and family for the loss of Rhonda..I worked many years with Rhonda at Dept of Revenue..She really knew her stuff..But working at SSM showed me what a caring person Rhonda was..When my Mom and Husband were there I would always see Rhonda and she would always ask how we were doing..She will be missed by many..RIP Rhonda
Rhonda was the queen of hospitality. She never knew a stranger. Her warm and welcoming smile offered reassurance to the many people she would meet and greet. Her heart was solid gold and her kindness and compassion always exceeded your expectations. Rhonda was dedicated to her family, her God, and the many members of her extended family. She fought a valiant fight, and, in her own way, won the battle against cancer. Life did not defeat her, it made her stronger….that’s the Rhonda we will all remember. God bless her and her family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
My sentiments exactly! The world needs more people like my friend Rhonda ߥ°
Rhonda was so very kind and caring. I will miss her but am thankful she is at peace.
Tom I call it a privilege to have worked with Rhonda. We laughed together, and cried together. We had fun together. She spoiled all the babies and children that came across her path. She was an amazing person, that I call a dear friend. Blessings and prayers to your family. Rhonda Cummings
I will miss running into Tom and Rhonda at Walmart. I worked with Rhonda at the Southridge office and she was so good to me. She will be missed by a lot of people. My mom was in St Mary’s a lot and Rhonda always made a effort to come say hi to her. Mom really like her also. She had a big heart for everyone. God took a good one with Rhonda. It was a blessing to know her. Just wanted Tom and the boys to know she talked about them all the time. She loved her family. Thanks Joyce Vauth
I am keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. Rhonda will be greatly missed by many. I hope the family will treasure the wonderful memories.
Darlene said it all. Rhonda always brightened my day. A wonderful kind caring lady
For many years when I was young I would spend a week across the road at our grandparents, Vincent and Ella Cassmeyer. They, along with Ronny, Lillian, Rhonda, Cheryl and Peggy were always so wonderfully kind to me it became the highlight of my summer. I’ll always look back fondly at those times and think of the moments we shared. My sympathies to Tom, his family and Rhonda’s family.
I worked with Rhonda in Registration. I was always touched by her kindness, positive outlook and patience with all. She especially had a way with Children, putting both the child and parent at ease by just being herself. This carried over to her job at switchboard. But her life was her family and she told family stories with humor, pride and mostly LOVE. She will be missed but so lucky to have her a part of our lives. Helene Kelsey
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