Susan Kay Ponder, 66, of Jefferson City, MO passed away on February 22nd, 2015, at home surrounded by her loving family.
Susan was born January 24th 1949, in Jefferson City to Paul and Georgia (Burke) Schulte.
She graduated from Helias Catholic High School in 1967 and received her Bachelors of Arts in Education from the University of Missouri in 1970. She received her Masters in Education Administration from Lincoln University.
She was united in marriage on June 8, 1979, in Jefferson City to Roger Ponder.
Susan held a special connection with the St. Joseph Cathedral School, with her father having helped build the school in 1959. She was a member of the inaugural class as a 6th grader in 1960. She accepted her first teaching job out of college in 1971 at St. Joseph's and received the first Distinguished Alumni Award in 1993. Susan became the first assistant principal of the school in 2002. Her 43 years of service to the St. Joseph Cathedral School was never just a job, but a calling to serve her community, her faith and to help students actively grow in their education as well as their relationship with God.
Susan volunteered in many ways at St. Joseph Cathedral church, namely as a Greeter, Eucharistic Minister, and during the annual Christmas Bazaar. Additionally, Susan was nominated for the Zonta Club's Woman of Achievement Award in 2012. She was very active with her bridge clubs and loved spending time with friends.
However, Susan's most cherished roles were as a wife, mother and grandmother. The time spent with her family, whether through vacations on the beach, sharing a book on tape, listening to choir performances, or cheering at figure skating competitions were treasured. Her moments with her 11 grandchildren were beloved, never wanting to miss a moment, big or small.
Susan is survived by her loving husband, Roger; one sister, Nancy (Bernie) Upschulte, Jefferson City; two sons, Craig (Ann) Ponder, Jefferson City; and Tim Ponder, Iberia; and two daughters, Beth (Jeremy) Morris, Jefferson City; and Jessie (Marshall) Abney, Warrensburg. She is also survived by 11 grandchildren: Ashton, Madison, Cameron, Shannon, Kelsey and Courtney Ponder; Macy, Tyler and Ellie Morris; and Collins and Harper Abney.
Visitation will be held at St. Joseph Cathedral on Wednesday, February 25th from 4-7 p.m. with a prayer service at 3:30 p.m.
Mass of Christian Burial will be 11 a.m. Thursday, February 26, 2015, at the Cathedral of St. Joseph with the Rev. Msgr. Robert A. Kurwicki officiating.
With Susan's strong belief in education and the love of her grandchildren, in lieu of flowers, contributions to the grandchildren's college education and a memorial toward St. Joseph School would be welcome and can be made through PayPal at susanpondermemorial@gmail.com.
Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements.
Those wishing to email tributes or condolences to the family may do so at the www.dulletrimble.com website.
To the Ponder family. We are so sorry for the lost of your loving wife, mother, and grandmother. May your fond memories keep Susan alive in your minds and hearts forever.
Sincerely,
Larry and Danna Zimmerman
To the Ponder family. We are so sorry for the lost of your loving wife, mother, and grandmother. May your fond memories keep Susan alive in your minds and hearts forever.
Sincerely,
Larry and Danna Zimmerman
Sincerest condolences to the Ponder family.
Doug Henson & Yobany Mora
Sincerest condolences to the Ponder family.
Doug Henson & Yobany Mora
Hugs and prayers to family and friends this is an amazing family and Susan will be missed so much she was truly an amazing woman
All of the Ponders: You have my heartfelt sympathy.
Mrs. Ponder was my 3rd grade teacher back in 1986 and I remember her fondly. My heartfelt sympathies go out to her family and friends.
I had Mrs. Ponder as a teacher at St. Joseph. I am sorry for your loss.
Heartfelt condolences to the Ponder family. Hugs and prayers for peace in this difficult time.
Tamy and Judy Higgins
Heartfelt condolences to the Ponder family. Hugs and prayers for peace in this difficult time.
Tamy and Judy Higgins
I am so sorry. Nancy and Roger, you and your family are in my prayers.
Barb Baron Lansford
I am so sorry. Nancy and Roger, you and your family are in my prayers.
Barb Baron Lansford
Mrs. Ponder, then, Miss Schulte, was my 4th grade teacher in 1974. She was also my parents’ neighbors (Kenny and Beverly Luetkemeyer). She has always been one of my favorite teachers. My sincere condolences to the whole Ponder family.
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your wife, mother and grandmother. RIP Mrs. Ponder. Many prayers to all close friends and family. What a great achievement and service to St Joseph. It is quite honorable.
Beautiful video – Some of the pictures bring back a lot of memories for me.
rest in peace ms.ponder. my family has lived next door for as long as i can remember…you used to put up with me as a child when beth and jessie babysat me…you will be missed
Susan, you will be forever in my heart. You have been a wonderful person, an inspiration. I always admired your balance between strength and kindness. I only wish I could be more like you. Thank you for passing through my life. You have left an indelible impression.
My heart sank when I learned of your passing. Thank you for all the great things you did for the St. Joe community. You were always so helpful and reliable. You will be missed.
To the Ponder, Morris and Abney families. Roger, Theresa and I were deeply saddened when we read about Susan’s passing. We have been away from home since February 1 and will not return until the end of March to explain our absence from the memorial service. We always cherished the great memories we shared together back in our happy conservation years. Our thoughts are about you and the rest of your beautiful family throughout this difficult period of mourning. Ron and Theresa Glover
So very sad to hear about Susan, Roger. She was a wonderful dedicated person. Jerry Goff
Condolences to the Ponder family and Nancy. When I knew Susan see was a teenager, but there was something that said she would be successful at whatever she pursued. God has chosen to take her too soon. It was a stroke of seridenpity that I found this a few days ago. The video was great.