DARRYL "CLARENCE JUNY" DRIVER
November 5, 1962 ~ October 11, 2012
Darryl Clarence Juny Driver, 49, of Jefferson City, died Thursday, October 11, 2012.
He was born on November 5, 1962, in Jefferson City to Clarence Carlee and DeLois (Blackwell) Driver. His mother survives in Jefferson City.
He was united in marriage on May 23, 1992, in Decatur, Ill. To Rhonda Denise Alexander who resides at the home.
Darryl was a graduate of Jefferson City High School, Lincoln University, and received his Juris Doctorate from Texas Southern University in 2000. Darryl put himself through school by starting his first business, Top Dog a hotdog cart located outside the Truman Building.
Darryl was an attorney starting his own law firm, Driver and Associates Law Firm specializing in criminal defense.
He was a lifelong member of Quinn Chapel A.M.E. Church where he served as Trustee and founder of the Mens Choir. He also was a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc., The Missouri Bar Association, and the Criminal Defense Lawyer Association.
Darryl was proud to be active in his community and community development. He took pride in serving his community through mentoring young people. He was a proud supporter of Jays Kids Club for Wrestling.
Other survivors include: three children, Darryn Driver; Darryck Driver; Danyelle Driver, all of the home; his mother, DeLois Driver, Jefferson City; four siblings, Annette Driver, Jefferson City; Jacquie (Raynard) Driver Andrews, Dallas, Texas; Shawn Driver, Dallas, Texas; Kim Driver Calvin, Dallas, Texas; ten nieces and nephews, Evan Andrews, Natalie Andrews, Kodei Calvin, Brandon Alexander, Shelby Alexander Rivenbark, Noah Alexander, Colin Kelley, Chloe Kelley, Lauren Haas, Brendan Haas; his father and mother-in-law, Herbert and Barbara Carolyn Alexander, Las Vegas, NV; and his brothers-in-law, Brad (Angie) Alexander, Manassas, VA; Brian (Rachel) Alexander, Springfield, IL.; Eric (Julia) Alexander, Waterloo, IL.
He was preceded in death by his father.
Funeral Services will be 11 a.m. Friday October 19, 2012, at First United Methodist Church with Pastor Cassandra Gould, of Quinn Chapel A.M.E. officiating.
Burial will be in Hawthorn Memorial Gardens.
Visitation will be 4-8 p.m. Thursday at Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home with a fraternal service at 7:30 p.m.
Memorials are suggested to the Darryl Driver Childrens Education Fund.
Those wishing to email tributes or condolences to the family may do so at the www.dulletrimble.com website.
He was born on November 5, 1962, in Jefferson City to Clarence Carlee and DeLois (Blackwell) Driver. His mother survives in Jefferson City.
He was united in marriage on May 23, 1992, in Decatur, Ill. To Rhonda Denise Alexander who resides at the home.
Darryl was a graduate of Jefferson City High School, Lincoln University, and received his Juris Doctorate from Texas Southern University in 2000. Darryl put himself through school by starting his first business, Top Dog a hotdog cart located outside the Truman Building.
Darryl was an attorney starting his own law firm, Driver and Associates Law Firm specializing in criminal defense.
He was a lifelong member of Quinn Chapel A.M.E. Church where he served as Trustee and founder of the Mens Choir. He also was a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc., The Missouri Bar Association, and the Criminal Defense Lawyer Association.
Darryl was proud to be active in his community and community development. He took pride in serving his community through mentoring young people. He was a proud supporter of Jays Kids Club for Wrestling.
Other survivors include: three children, Darryn Driver; Darryck Driver; Danyelle Driver, all of the home; his mother, DeLois Driver, Jefferson City; four siblings, Annette Driver, Jefferson City; Jacquie (Raynard) Driver Andrews, Dallas, Texas; Shawn Driver, Dallas, Texas; Kim Driver Calvin, Dallas, Texas; ten nieces and nephews, Evan Andrews, Natalie Andrews, Kodei Calvin, Brandon Alexander, Shelby Alexander Rivenbark, Noah Alexander, Colin Kelley, Chloe Kelley, Lauren Haas, Brendan Haas; his father and mother-in-law, Herbert and Barbara Carolyn Alexander, Las Vegas, NV; and his brothers-in-law, Brad (Angie) Alexander, Manassas, VA; Brian (Rachel) Alexander, Springfield, IL.; Eric (Julia) Alexander, Waterloo, IL.
He was preceded in death by his father.
Funeral Services will be 11 a.m. Friday October 19, 2012, at First United Methodist Church with Pastor Cassandra Gould, of Quinn Chapel A.M.E. officiating.
Burial will be in Hawthorn Memorial Gardens.
Visitation will be 4-8 p.m. Thursday at Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home with a fraternal service at 7:30 p.m.
Memorials are suggested to the Darryl Driver Childrens Education Fund.
Those wishing to email tributes or condolences to the family may do so at the www.dulletrimble.com website.
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To The Driver Family,I recently learned of your loss and was deeply saddened, as Darryl and I attended Jefferson City High School together. I remember helping him with his initial business plan for his first hot dog stand. He had such a wonderful spirit and it was a blessing to me to read his obituary. He was so much more than his accomplishments. He was a true disciple of The Lord, which was demonstrated by his servant heart and love for family. My maiden name is Mary M. Harris, and I pray that The Lord comforts you as only He can during this difficult time, and that the memory of Darryl warms the hearts of all who knew him. Sincerely,Mary (Harris) Green-Lee
To the Driver family, I can only imgaine that the pain you all feel is unbearable. I communicated with Darryl only a few days before he passed away and he talked about all the upcoming work he had to do. He was a fellow graduate of Thurgood Marshall law school in Houston. He loved his family and dreaded the long hours he had to work and be a way from them but he did what he had to do for his family. I prayed God grants the family peace as they begins to pick up the pieces. He will be remembered by me as a man of God, a family man, and a Thurgood Marshall graduate. Peter J. Clarke
To: The family of Darryl Driver:We are greatly saddened, with you, over the loss of your husband, father and friend. Be comforted, knowing that you are not alone. Our church and I are sharing your grief. We are with you, available to you and anxious to help lighten your load. Let this letter be a loving reminder to you that God is with you “for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.” (Hebrews 13:5)Keep the wonderful memories of Darryl in your heart. Let us ask God for help to see death as it really is – only a shadow. Most of all, to help us to trust the Shepherd who has experienced and understands all mysteries.May you be filled with faith and hope even in the midst of sadness. This is our prayer for you. We Love you. Yours in Christ,Elder Gregory T. Reeves andThe Jefferson City Church of God In Christ Family
Annette, and the entire Driver family.My condolences to all of you. I apologize for not being at Juny’s visitation or funeral. I graduated high school with him. Juny was always an inspiration to me. He was so outgoing in school; everyone’s friend. Later, whenever I saw him outside the Truman Building with his cart, I thought to myself, ‘he is going to make it big someday.’ I wish I would have spoken to him more. I would have discovered his motivation behind the cart. Now that I know what that motivation was, I am even more inspired by what he did with his life and how many people he influenced. Juny will always be my friend, and I will always remember his great personality and his willingness to do whatever it takes to succeed. Barry Beach
Dear Rhonda,My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. Please know you and your children will be in my thoughts and prayers.God Bless,Antoinette (Former WY Medicaid Pharmacy Manager)
Hello this is Charles’s Jackson wife and I want to give my condelences to you and your family. May your memories give you strength and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
Annette, I am very sorry to learn about the passing of your brother. It’s never easy to lose a family member but happy memories can help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rhonda, I am very sorry to hear about Darryl’s home going. I am also sorry I could not make the services as I have a 16 year old Samuel in the playoffs here in St. Louis. May God’s love and peace be with you and your family. All I could do whenever I thought of you and Darryl is smile!!!! Lord I remember the days! Whenever I think of hotdogs I will remember him as well. You all were just precious together and I know you will miss him. Know that Jesus loves you Rhonda and so do I. Call me later when you began to settle down some or if you need to talk anytime of day or night. I love you very much. Ms. Val 223-1358cell/home 314-726-5570/work 652-0300 ext:2508
TO: Rhonda and FamilyDeepest sympathies to you and your family for your loss. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Darryl, but I am certain he was a special man and he will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.Sincerely, Steve Calloway
To the family of Darryl, I was a client and friend of Darryl’s and I am deeply saddened by the loss of this great man. He always had a smile, drove me crazy by always having to clarify what I was saying, and he had an amazing analitical mind. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Sincerely,Stacy
Rhonda,Your family has been in my thoughts and prayers every day. I am so sorry for your loss and cannot imagine what it must be like for you. My heart goes out to you. God Bless you and all those close to you.Julie Trimble
I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of Darryl and am so very sorry for your loss. You all will be in my constant thoughts and prayers. May the love of GOD comfort and heal you during this most difficult time.
My Prayers are with the Driver Family.Darryl will truely be missedby his LU Family. God bless you all.
Rhonda, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We are praying for peace and understanding for you and your family.
My family and I grieve with you. May God bless you.
We are so sorry of your lose and hope that time will heal and the goodness of God pervail. Our Twins Katie and Karlie have gone to school with your Derykk. You’re in our prayers
To fulfill divine purpose, you answer when you’re called. To the entire Driver family;Sometimes life can place a stumbling block in your way but keep the faith,and remember nothing is too hard for our God.Cast your cares on him,he will open up a window and pour you out a blessing.When the Lord steps in he brings everything you need,healing, power, and victory; Just trust and believe and by your faith you will receive.Annette,Think of your times together with Juny and the joy it brought to you,and perhaps those thoughts will ease your pain and help to see you through.With Deepest Sympathy,Love,Renee
To the family; I am truly sorry for your great lost and your love one will not be forgotten. May God bless and comfort each and everyone of you.
Our sympathy to all of you. “Juny” came with Brent Gardner to Eldon, MO, to an 85th birthday party for my mother, widow of Holmes Steen, whose great-grandmother was an Iberia Williams. I know he will be missed. Blessings.
my condolences to you for the loss of a zealous advocate. may he rest in peace.
Darryl was a true friend of mine and came from a very respectful family. God be with his family at the tragic time. R.I.P. Darryl.
Rhonda, my heart goes out to you and the kids. We love you so much, please know you are not alone..Julie Lockett
Dear Rhonda, I was so sorry to hear about your loss of your husband, Darryl. Please do know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this time. While we all share the same future experience, nothing prepares us for losing someone we love. Please know I am thinking about you and your family. My best wishes to your Mom and Dad who I remember so fondly. Big Hug to you. Jane Lockett
Dear Annette and to Darryl’s wife, children, and other family members – Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. Warmly, Paula
Rhonda, I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. You are in my prayers.
To the Driver family: You have our deepest sympathy for your loss. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Bro. Darryl is in God’s hands as you are. Swo!
On behalf of the Reeves Family of Atlanta, GA, I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Family of my Fraternity Brother Darryl “Clarence Juny” Driver. Brother Darryl was proud to be a distinguished member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., Alpha Mu Chapter at Lincoln University. Darryl was loved by the Fraternity Brothers and will be truly missed by the members of our illustrious Fraternity! There’s a cliché amongst the Brothers and that is when a Brother moves on from the fraternal life here, he then moveson into the invisible Chapter in the Sky. We will always remember Brother Driver!May the good Lord continue to bless the Driver and Alexander Families! Sincerely, Brother J.R. ReevesKappa Alpha Psi, Fraternity, Inc Alpha Mu ChapterUSS U7 Fall 1980
To the entire Driver family, my brother and I are so sorry for your loss. We enjoyed our days at Thorpe Gordon and high school with you. Darryl sounds like he had turned out to be an outstanding individual who has left a wonderful legacy. How proud you must all be. God’s Blessings. Love, Dan Hord and Julie Hord Thomas
I am so sorry that your time has been cut so short with such a spectacular husband and father. Clarence was a model of grace,intelligence and kindness. You are in my prayers.
i was very sorry to hear of the passing of darryl…prayers go out to his entire family during this time of sorrow..
May God comfort your family at this inexplicable time. I offer my deepest condolences.
We offer our condolences and best wishes to the family in this hard time and mourne the loss of a great and honorrable man.
My condolences to the Driver Family. I met Darryl in law school. He was always friendly, caring, and concerned about his fellow man. I am grateful I had the opportunity to know Darryl and call him a colleague. The legal community has loss a good lawyer, and the world has loss a great man. I love you ‘D’! God now has great legal representation. – Loranzo M. Fleming, Assistant U.S. Attorney, Northern District of Georgia
To the Driver Family,Shocked to hear about Darryl’s sudden death. My sincere sympathy in the loss of your loved one. We are blessed to share his memory and spirit. May God bless you and keep you in His care!Gary & Jeanette White (St Louis)
My sincere sympathies, Rhonda to you and your family. I wish you God’s peace during this difficult time.
Annette, so sorry to hear about Darryl, God be with you and the Family.
Dear Rhonda,I offer my condolences for you and the loss of Darryl. I will always remember his smile and inspiring manner. I pray for his gracious soul, and peace to be with you both.John
My heartfelt condolences, prayers, and love to the family.Carlotta Kimble
Dear Driver Family, I have known Juny since 3rd grade whenever us Tebbetts kids were sent to Thorpe J. Gordon. He was always full of life and a lot of fun with a twinkle in his eye! This world has surely lost a very fine person but take comfort in the days, weeks, months and years ahead knowing he’s in a better place.
My most sincere sympathy to the family, especially Juny’s wife and children. I went to high school with him. He was the most kind, generous and personable friend. He treated others as he wanted to be treated, always with a smile and never a cross word. I was so proud when he received his law degree. I know how hard he worked to provide for his family. A true loss to all who knew him and my heartfelt condolences to you all. God Bless…
Our condolences to Rhonda and the entire Driver family. What a tremendous loss to our community. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.David & Suzanne Luther
To the Driver family,You have my deepest sympathy. Darryl wasa good man, father, and friend. He willbe sincerely missed. Stay strong, and may God be with you.
To the family of Darryl I send my condolences..We have been family for a long time…I will miss Darryl and his humor..He was a great achievement for himself and family…He will be greatly missed…
My sincere condolences to the family on the sudden loss of your loved one.
May Darryl rest in God’s loving arms forever. He was one of the ‘Good Guys’. May the good Lord be with his family & many friends as they will think of him often.
Sorry to hear of your loss, God Bless all of you!!!!!
Rhonda we are so sorry for the loss of Darryl. Your family are in our prayers!Tracy and Troy
So sorry to hear about your lost. Gods peace to you and your family.
May God bless you and your family
Dear Rhonda and Family,My deepest sympathies on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.Susan Parker
We attended LU’s Homecoming last week and checked into the Capital Plaza Hotel Thursday. Darryl’s Kappa Brothers had just been informed of his death. It was so emotional. I remember the Driver Family and we knew Violet and Sid Black. May God Bless The Driver Family. We are praying for you!Thomas and Lillie Abbott-LU Class of 1972
To Rhonda and the Driver Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Darryl was a great friend to my brother and I appreciate all he did, especially in the past couple of years. He would come by and pick him up, take him places or just sit with him to keep his spirits up. He is a great man and will be missed. He is like family and I will miss him. If there is anything you need, please do not hesitate to call. Deloise Williams
Rhonda – If there is anything I can do please let me know. I and my prayer warriors are all praying for you and your family.
We didn’t see each other often, but whenever we did, Darryl acted as though we just spoke yesterday. He gave me “permission” to call him “Juny” because I couldn’t remember the name Darryl. That’s what I liked most about him…his easy going manner. You couldn’t help but be in a pleasant mood whenever he was around. I will always remember his intellect, his beautiful smile, and his great sense of humor. Family, my heart goes out to all of you, especially Rhonda and the kids. Mrs Delois, you raised an amazing son! My prayers are with you. Be blessed.
Rhonda, I am so sorry. If there is “anything” I can do to help, please call me or Joe. You and the kids are in our prayers.
To the Driver family, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. Jamaal & Denise
I pray that the Lord provides comfort to the Driver family during this time. He will carry you through and give you strenght and know that your love one is with his heavenly Father now. God bless you and keep you. Shelly Jackson
Rhonda,Darryn,Darryck,Danyelle, and the rest of the family-we send our deepest prayers and thoughts to you, as you mourn the loss of Darryl. May God be with you all.Love,Jetawn, George, and Christopher Smith
I am still at a total loss for words with Darryl’s home going. With that, I dedicate this reading to Darryl (Juny) Driver in hopes that it brings a sense of peace for you, his family and friends.IF YOU COULD SEE – I’M HOMEAuthor UnknownIf you could see where I have gone, the beauty of this place,And how it feels to know you’re HOME, to see the Saviour’s face.To wake in peace and know no fear,just joy beyond compare,While still on earth you miss me yet, you wouldn’t want me there!If you could see where I have gone, had made the trip with me,You’d know I DIDN’T GO ALONE – my Saviour came with me.When I awoke, He was by my side and said as He touched my hand”Hurry, you are going HOME to a grand a glorious land”.You would marvel at the care of God, His hand on every life,And realize He really cares, and bears with us each strife.And that He weeps when one is lost, His heart is filled with painBut oh!THE JOY!When one comes HOME – a child at HOME again.If you could stay a while with me – could share the things that God has made to grace eternity,I know you wouldn’t want to leave – once Heaven’s joy you’re shownYou couldn’t bear to walk earth’s paths once Heaven was your HOME.If you could see where I have gone – you know we’ll meet some dayAnd though I’m parted from you now, that I am JUST away.And now that I am HOME with Him, secure in every way,I’m waiting here – at heaven’s door – to greet you some sweet dayMay God Bless and keep you during this very difficult time.
Rhonda and family,Joe and I were sadden to hear of the loss of Darryl. He will be greatly missed. God Bless you and your family and may you find strengh during this difficult time. Joe and Brenda LaBella