Mary Jane McAleer

mary jane mcaleer

Mary Jane McAleer, née Giorgino, passed away peacefully on February 1, 2026, in Jefferson City, Missouri.

She is survived by her beloved husband, Joseph McAleer, with whom she shared 53 years of marriage.  She also leaves behind her son, Dr. Jody McAleer, his wife Kristen, and their daughters Ashtyn, affectionately called “Sunshine” by Mary Jane, and Brooklyn, lovingly nicknamed “Missy B.”  She is further survived by her daughter, Marissa McAleer, her husband Vincent Greco Jr., and their motley crew of dogs, too many to name.  Mary Jane also leaves behind her cherished miniature schnauzer, Elsa, who misses her mom very, very much.

Mary Jane was born on September 8, 1950, in the Bronx, New York.  She often joked that she never liked her birthday because it always fell on the first day of school.  She graduated from St. Nicholas of Tolentine High School in the Bronx and went on to work as an administrative assistant for an insurance company, where she was known for her impressive typing speed of over 80 words per minute.  She remained in that industry until she had children, at which point she devoted herself fully to raising her family.  When her children were grown and Joe retired, they relocated to Missouri to be closer to their son Jody and his family.

An avid lover of the performing arts and former box office manager for the Irvington Town Hall Theatre in Irvington, New York, Mary Jane was a devoted patron of community theater in both New York and Missouri, most recently supporting Capitol City Productions in Jefferson City.  She instilled in her daughter and granddaughters a deep love of the stage.  Her favorite show was Les Misérables, which she saw multiple times.  Other favorites included Wicked, Aida, Hamilton, The Mikado, and Chicago.  She also had a fondness for doo wop music and was always ready to drop whatever she was doing to attend a performance by Kenny Vance and the Planotones.

Mary Jane had a profound love for animals and supported many local animal shelters and rescue organizations.  She was exceptionally skilled at Scrabble and Words with Friends, and she read nearly every book ever written by Stephen King and Anne Rice.  Her thumb was dark green, as evidenced by her impressive collection of thriving houseplants.  She was known for her great sense of humor, joyful laugh, and deeply compassionate heart.

Mary Jane was an incredible wife, mother, and friend.  A constant cheerleader for those she loved, she leaves behind a legacy of kindness, encouragement, and love.  She will be greatly missed.  May her memory be a blessing.

Services entrusted to Trimble Funeral Homes – Jefferson City.    trimblefunerals.com

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  1. Not only were you the best grandma I could ever ask for, but you were also my best friend. Thank you for showing me what true love is these past 17 years. From your glowing personality to your selflessness, you truly are such a role model to me. Thank you for introducing me to piano, theatre, and music. Without you, I wouldn’t have ever realized what I was missing out on. I love you forever. Rest in peace. -Your Sunshine

  2. Maryjane, you were not just my niece but a friend . I will miss our conversations, laughs and playing Words with you. I didn’t win a lot. You were the best we would laugh and go right on playing. You will be missed by so many people. Love you

  3. We both will miss you, Maryjane. Miss your smile and the laughs we all had whenever we were together. Loved making the trips to Missouri to spend time with you and your family. I liked playing Words With Friends with you, even though I never won! Glad we had time to share stories and I loved making dinners for you and Joe. Val and I will always cherish the time spent with you. Love you MJ. Val & Michelle

  4. May your light continue to shine in your children and grandchildren. I am so blessed to have gotten to know you MJ! Rest in peace, sweet lady.

  5. Joe sorry to hear about Mary Jane. I remember well her kindness to us when we stayed with you back in the 80’s. May she rest in peace. Sean

  6. You were the sunshine for so many of us who were part of the McAleer entourage . Always caring , gracious and smiling . You will be missed . Thanks for the memories . Rest in peace MJ

  7. Dr. McAleer, Kristen and girls, I am so sorry for your loss. Mom/Grandma sounded like a delightful lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. Ann Gaskin

  8. Jody and Kristen,
    Our prayers for comfort and peace go up for your family. May you find comfort in treasured memories and feel her love in your hearts.

  9. I will miss you so much grandma! You truly were my best friend. I loved going to your house to talk with you and I felt like I could tell you anything. I still will be talking to you because I know you are still listening. Thank you so much for helping me realize the good things there are to life and I will always be thinking of you and loving you no matter how far away you may seem! I love you so much to the moon and back.
    love, missy b 🥰

  10. We were saddened to hear of the passing of Mary Jane. We recall a happy and enjoyable meeting in a lovely Japanese restaurant in NYC over 20 years ago. May she rest in peace. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a hanam. Kathleen & Nishi McCann, Tyrone, Ireland.

  11. I am so so sorry about beautiful MJ. A rare and true beauty.

    Shocking news. Devastating for you.

    Grief is the longest and toughest road in life, so please bring kindness to yourself.

    I think, it’s about finding the small things in life which uplift you, bring a smile to your face and building on them.

    May you be safe and well in the midst of this

    May you have peace in the midst of this

    May you live with ease and with kindness in the midst of this.

    Thinking of you all with kindness

    Love you

    Xox


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