August "Bern" Bonderer
October 29, 1968 ~ September 30, 2026
Born in:
Columbia, Missouri
Resided in:
Hartsburg, Missouri
August “Bern” Bonderer, 57, of Hartsburg, passed away on Wednesday, September 30, 2026, at his home surrounded by his family.
He was born on October 29, 1968, in Columbia, MO, the son of Anthony Fredrick and Mary Elizabeth (Norman) Bonderer.
Bern was a 1987 graduate of Fulton High School, later graduating from Westminster College with a bachelor’s degree in accounting.
Bern was a CPA who worked for Twehous Excavating Company as the CFO for over 2 decades. He was also a MSHSSA certified soccer referee for over 10 years.
He was a member of the Cathedral of St. Joseph.
Bern was known to be, what some might consider, “obsessed” with a few different things. If you knew him, you know this list could be paragraphs long. For starters, he was an avid fan of Alabama football, the St. Louis Cardinals, Jimmy Buffett, and Southern Boone Soccer. He loved his Swiss heritage, Halloween, watching Marvel superhero movies, and hunting with friends and family. Above all else, he moved heaven and earth to be present for and support his three sons.
Survivors include his mother, Mary; three sons, Matthew (Olivia) Bonderer, Christopher (Hannah) Bonderer, and Samuel (Haylee) Bonderer; two siblings, Andrew (Stacey) Bonderer, and Lisa (David) Allen.
Bern was preceded in death by his father.
Visitation will be 4:30-7:00 p.m. Friday, October 9, 2026, at St. John Henry Newman Center in Columbia, Missouri with a prayer service at 4:00 p.m.
Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:00 a.m. Saturday, October 10, 2026, at the Cathedral of St. Joseph, with the Rev. Chris Cordes officiating.
Burial will be in St. Columban Catholic Church Cemetery in Chillicothe, Missouri.
Memorials are suggested to Southern Boone Soccer Booster Club or to Eagle Foundation Inc. (Associated with Southern Boone Schools).
Services entrusted to Trimble Funeral Homes – Jefferson City. trimblefunerals.com
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Services
Visitation: Friday, October 9, 2026 4:30 pm - 7:00 pm
St. John Henry Newman Catholic Church
602 Turner Ave.
Columbia, Missouri 65201
Mass of Christian Burial: Saturday, October 10, 2026 10:00 am
Cathedral of St. Joseph
2215 West Main Street
Jefferson City, Missouri 65109





It saddens me to think such a good person is gone too soon. Bern was such a good friend, and he was always such a caring person that always wanted to help people any way he could whether he was helping at Bingo, sports etc. He will truly be missed. RIP my friend.
From coaching kids soccer to running the T-ball and Coach pitch leagues, to making the best Saturday morning breakfasts, to organizing the Red Kettle campaign for the holidays, Bern leaves an indelible legacy of Optimism, love and kindness for all of us in Southern Boone to emulate.
So many great times refereeing soccer at all levels. You will be missed my friend. God’s Blessings.
Bern and I went to school together, he was one year below me. Incredible guy!!! He was a great friend to me all through high school. I am very sorry to hear of his passing. RIP my friend!!!!
Tam
Lisa and family, my deepest condolences. Although I didn’t know Bern, he sounds like he was a wonderful father, brother, son, uncle, and friend. May he rest in peace. Love you and big hugs!❤️
Bern family
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Bern was such a loving giving person with soccer and optimist baseball fields. He was an amazing person who never wanted the spotlight on him.
Trenton Dial