Iona Fern Kirchner

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Iona Fern Tambke Kirchner, 83, of Russellville, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 21, 2026, at her home, surrounded by her five children and family. 

Fern was born on April 15, 1942, in Russellville, Missouri, the daughter of Herbert Arnold and Eunice Corrine (Scrivner) Tambke. She attended Russellville School and remained deeply rooted in the community throughout her life.

On October 15, 1960, Fern was united in marriage to her soulmate, Ray Vance Kirchner, at Russellville United Methodist Church.

Fern’s primary goal in life was to be a devoted and loving wife and mother.  She was a member of the Order of Eastern Star and a lifelong member of the Russellville United Methodist Church.  Fern worked in her early years at Capital Reserve Life Insurance. She and her husband also owned and operated a local grocery store in Russellville. Over the years, Fern held several part-time positions, including House of Bargains and RGIS. She devoted decades of service to the State of Missouri under the Office of Administration, working within Elementary and Secondary Education and Adult Institutions, before retiring from Probation and Parole after 20 years of service.

Together, Fern and her husband of 63 years raised not only their own children, but lovingly extended their hearts to nearly every child in the Russellville community. Their home was always open, with a constant revolving door. Fern had a heart of gold, overflowing with love, compassion, and generosity. There was scarcely a person who did not seek her comfort at some point. Her love knew no boundaries.  Sunday afternoons often included trips after church to visit nursing homes and others in need of companionship and care.

Fern shared her gift of music generously, providing music at many community events, including horse shows. She was also among those who helped break ground for the Russellville Community Pool.

Fern faced many obstacles throughout her life, but none greater than in 1990, when her husband was permanently injured. From that moment on, her life’s mission became caring for him. With God’s guidance, along with the support of a close-knit family and community, Fern remained faithfully by Ray’s side, doing everything in her power to keep him alive and cared for over the next 33 years.

Music was woven into Fern’s soul. At the age of 13, she was asked by her Uncle DW to play the piano at church, marking the beginning of a lifetime of service through music. She continued playing for the church until her final service on December 24, 2025.

Fern’s greatest love was her husband and children, followed closely by the joy and pride she found in her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Even in her later years, she and Ray rarely missed an event involving them—whether watching from a lawn chair in a basketball or volleyball gym or from the van at a baseball field.  Their presence was always felt and deeply cherished.

Fern is survived by her children: Allen Vance Kirchner of Jefferson City; Lori Ann Kirchner (Nita) of Russellville; Lana Kay Kirchner of Russellville; Jason Ray Kirchner (Jana) of California; and Jennifer Rae Kirchner of Jefferson City. She is also survived by thirteen grandchildren: Ashley (Wayne), AJ (Kayla), Lucas (Rachel), Lydia, Chelsea (Adam), Kyrsten (Dinnin), Dalton, Connor, Isaac (Mady), Ethan (Sammantha), Shaelin (Cole), Reilly, and Masen; and seven great-grandchildren: Anabelle, Jay, Sawyer, Rhett, Vance, Zoe.

Additional survivors include her sister, Janice Kay Phillips of New Bloomfield; her brother, Greg Tambke (Jenenne) of Holts Summit; sisters-in-law Norma Tambke of Arizona and Shirley Bernskoetter of Wardsville; along with many cousins, family members, and friends.  Fern was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Ray Kirchner; her brother, James (Jim) Tambke; and brothers-in-law Harley Kirchner, Marvin Bernskoetter, and Frank Philips Phillips, two nephews, Doug Tambke and Jeff Phillips and her dear friend, Judy Cliburn.

Visitation will be 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm, Saturday, February 7, 2026 at Russellville United Methodist Church. A memorial service will follow at 4 pm with Pastor Karen Jones and Reverend John Kerr officiating. Burial will be held at a later date in Enloe Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are suggested to the Russellville United Methodist Church.

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Visitation: Saturday, February 7, 2026 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Russellville United Methodist Church
5116 Simpson Street
Russellville, Missouri 65074


Memorial Service: Saturday, February 7, 2026 4:00 pm

Russellville United Methodist Church
5116 Simpson Street
Russellville, Missouri 65074


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  1. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We extend our prayers and sympathy to the family. Walter and Joy

  2. My beautiful mom. My heart aches with losing you, I get comfort knowing your love is eternal. I’ll always cherish your strength, your beautiful smile, and the way you made every day brighter. Thank you for being my guiding light and making me who I am. Thank you for loving my children and grandchildren and showing them God through your actions. Mom, you are forever in my heart, and your legacy lives on in us all. You gave your whole life to everyone else to bring happiness and love. You loved with no conditions And through that love and selfless giving you have gained more children than your own. You are finally with Dad and your loved ones in Heaven. I also know that you are leading all the beautiful music in Heaven with the biggest most grand pipe organ. Rest in peace, Momma. I love you always”.

  3. I have never heard anyone make an organ come alive like Fern could. Such a talented and caring lady. My heart breaks and yet I know Ray was waiting for her to come home. My prayers are with all of her family members; especially, her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. May God comfort each of you during this very difficult time. 🙏🙏

  4. So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers for the entire family. Fern was such a beautiful and multi-talented lady whose organ playing, organization and participation in community functions will never be forgotten. Her laughter was contagious and smile was an invitation of friendship. She will be missed but I know she is happy to be back with Ray.

  5. I am so heartbroken to hear about Fern passing. Every time I saw her she always told me the story of when my Daddy died and I was only 8 months old, her and Ray took care of me. Ray had to hold me so I would stop crying. 😢. She was talented in playing the church organ at the Methodist Church. She even played music at my first wedding. She was a wonderful family friend and she will truly be missed. Rest in peace dear friend, you are now back with Ray. Prayers to all the family, love you ❤️🙏🙏🙏

  6. My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Fern welcomed me into the church family in early 1996 with open arms during a scary time in our lives and we enjoyed visits at their home, our church, and she even took my Doug out driving once for his learners permit- insisting she do this! What a wonderful woman, so talented & so dedicated to family and friends. She will be missed.

  7. We are so very sorry for your loss. Fern was a wonderful woman and I always loved talking to her. We have know her and Ray for many years. Sending prayers for her family in this difficult time.

  8. Keith and I are so sad to hear of Fern’s passing. She was a beautiful lady inside and out. She will be missed by many. Love to you all.

  9. Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the family and loved ones. May she rest in peace and God Bless!

  10. So very sorry for your loss. Fern was a great lady and will be missed by so many of her family and friends. May the memories and precious photos you have of her see you through this difficult time. ❤️ From all the Fletcher family and Jon and Lois Alexander we extend our sincere sympathy to you all. God bless.

  11. There was nothing that had changed about Fern between the time that I met her in 1977 and our last conversation in the Winter of 2025. She was always sunshine, love, kindness, laughter, strength, support, a true walking/talking Christian and just so incredibly real. I will miss her forever and continue to lift the family up in prayer! Much love to the Kirchner’s always!

  12. Rob & I are so saddened to hear of the passing of Ms. Fern, but are comforted that she is with our Lord & Savior & has been reunited with her precious Ray that she missed so much. You were a treasure to know Ms. Fern. We will never forget you. Praying for all the kids & family. We’re here if we can help in any way.

  13. Fern was a very dear friend and always had that beautiful smile. So sorry for the family’s loss. You have many good memories to look back on. God Bless all of you!

  14. My heart is broken! Fern will be missed by so many! Fern never met a stranger. The love Fern and Ray gave to me and my son (Tyler) will never be forgotten! Fern was one of a kind! I will never forget all the midnight talks, the laughs and cries we had! I know those gold gates are open for you and you have your golden wings and you are with Ray again! You will never be forgotten! Love you always!

  15. Very sorry to hear of Fern’s passing. She and Ray were such caring and good people; their kindness will never be forgotten. Always enjoyed visiting with them and hearing all the fun stories! May you all find comfort in the wonderful memories you have. Sincerest condolences and prayers for everyone. RIP

  16. To the whole Kirchner clan, please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your dear mother and grandmother. It has been over 40 years since I have been around you all, but back in the day of buying and racing go-karts from Allen, Fern was always the sweetest and most kind person to me when my dad (Rich) would stop by to discuss repairs and other karting talk (I think it was more about have a beverage with Ray and Allen and BS-ing a little). I have fond memories of hanging out at your house, sometimes late into the night. Fern would be so caring and make sure I had something to eat or drink and just mom me a little with Jason and Jennifer. May you find solace knowing that she and Ray are united again in the arms of our Lord and savior. God bless you and your families.

  17. To the Kirchner family – please accept my condolences for the loss of your Mom & Grandma. I’ve known Ray and Fern since I was young – probably the mid 70’s. They would come to our house to visit with my mom and dad. I think the last time I saw Fern was at a ballgame in Russellville. Seemed like old times – just turning a page in a book. I know Ray’s injuries were very hard on her, but it didn’t deter who she was or what she did! Great memories for sure. Prayers for the entire Kirchner family during this difficult time. So sorry I didn’t see that she had passed away until today.

  18. Lana and family…I am so sorry for your loss. Your momma was a spunky lady who always made me smile! I remember the day she saw my daughter in Dollar General and was giving her a lesson on how to find the best deals. I absolutely loved it! May she rest in peace with your daddy and our Lord and Savior in heaven.

  19. Mrs.Fern was a true lady. She and I had yard sales moved furniture, caulked, and everything in between. She was a hard worker! Her huge heart can best be displayed through her many children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She loved them so much. I just thank God thank everyday for having to have met such a shining example. May she and Ray forever rest in peace with our father on high.

  20. To the Kirchner Family,
    I’m so sorry for the loss of your mother. She was such a kind and beautiful person. Every time I would see her through the years, she always had a smile on her face and kind words to say.
    May she rest in peace.
    Tammy Surface-Schnieders

  21. Fern was a wonderful lady and fantastic mother. Was a God send for my mother when we moved from the city to the country. Always willing to listen and talk. She will be greatly missed.

  22. So sorry to hear of Fern’s passing. Worked with her ages ago at HOB. used to see her around once in awhile and she never forgot you. We had good talks and laughs. Everything they have said about her is true– she was a jewel. Sympathy to all the family.

  23. Fern was always kind to me , she would stand and talk for hours and never held back the cold hard truth. It was one of the things I liked the most about her ! She was brutally honest 🙂 She will be missed by many. My heart goes out to her children and her family.🙏🙏❤️❤️

  24. Simply put — she is one of the best people I know. I will miss her. She was a precious and wonderful person.

  25. Fern was a great friend. I enjoyed playing piano as she played the organ at church for many years. She will always be remembered and missed.
    Condolences to the family.

  26. Finally, I can grieve starting with the most beautiful, emotional, happy, sad and embracing tribute provided by the best in the business. This video captured our Mom. Our angel. Bless all of you for making this emotional journey a blessing as well. John, Kyle, Christy, Ron and Henry as well as all staff assisting. Thank you so very much. Rest in peach Mom with Dad and all those loved ones and strangers you will cross paths with. Lana Kay


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