Bishop John Raymond Gaydos

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Bishop Emeritus John Raymond Gaydos, 82, who served as the third Bishop of Jefferson City from 1997 to 2017, died peacefully the morning of Saturday, September 6, 2025, at St. Agnes Retirement Home in Kirkwood, Missouri.

He was born on August 14, 1943, in St. Louis, the oldest of four sons of the late George and Carrie Lee (Pearson) Gaydos.

He attended St. Agnes School, St. Louis Preparatory Seminary High School, and Cardinal Glennon College.

He studied theology at the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome while continuing his priestly formation at the Pontifical North American College (PNAC).

He was ordained a transitional deacon in the Chapel of the Pontifical North American College on May 5, 1968.

On December 20 of that year, at the Altar of the Chair in St. Peter’s Basilica in Vatican City, Bishop Francis F. Reh, ordained Bishop Gaydos to the Holy Priesthood.

Bishop Gaydos served for 28 years as a priest of the St. Louis archdiocese before becoming Bishop of Jefferson City.

On August 27, 1997, in the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Jefferson City, Archbishop Rigali ordained him the third Bishop of the Diocese of Jefferson City.

In two decades as head of the diocese, Bishop Gaydos stayed focused on evangelization in light of sweeping demographic changes and the diminishing number of available priests.  Churches, schools and Newman centers were built or expanded on his watch.

In 2004, Emil Schwartz of Westphalia and the family of his brother, the late Alphonse J. Schwartze, donated the funding to build the Alphonse J. Schwartze Memorial Catholic Center in Jefferson City, which Bishop Gaydos and his fellow Missouri Bishops blessed after its completion.

Other highlights of Bishop Gaydos’s tenure in Jefferson City were the establishment of a diocesan affiliate of Catholic Charities USA – Catholic Charities of Central and Northern Missouri, the opening of Fr. Tolton Regional Catholic High School in Columbia, the intensification of formation for permanent deacons, and the inviting of a new wave of missionary priests from around the world to minister here.

Bishop Gaydos served on many national Church committees, including the U.S. Catholic Bishops’ committees on world missions, communications, priestly life, administration, marriage and family life, and interreligious affairs, and the subcommittee for the Church in Central and Eastern Europe.

After Archbishop McKnight’s ordination and installation on Feb. 6, 2018, Bishop Gaydos took up residence in the Cathedral of St. Joseph Rectory in Jefferson City, where he continued offering daily Mass, traveling, and keeping up with voluminous correspondence.

Bishop Gaydos moved to St. Agnes Home in Kirkwood in July of 2024.  “My heart remains in Jefferson City and I pray daily for all the local Church and everyone who is a part of it,” he stated at that time.

Survivors include his brother, Stephen (Sandy) Gaydos, St. Louis; a sister-in-law, Betty Gaydos, St. Charles; many nieces and nephews; a great niece and several great nephews; and other extended family members.

He was preceded in death by his parents; and two brothers, Mark (Cindy) Gaydos and Gary Gaydos.

Visitation will be from 3 to 7 p.m. on Monday, September 15, 2025, at the Cathedral of St. Joseph with a Vigil Service and prayers at 7 p.m.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, September 16, 2025, at 10 a.m. in the Cathedral of St. Joseph in Jefferson City, with Metropolitan Archbishop Mitchell T. Rozanski of St. Louis presiding and Archbishop Emeritus George J. Lucas of Omaha, Nebraska, preaching the homily.  Archbishop Shawn McKnight, who succeeded Bishop Gaydos as shepherd of the diocese, along with priests of this diocese and the St. Louis archdiocese, will concelebrate, along with other guest priests.

Both ceremonies will be open to the public and will be livestreamed on the Diocese of Jefferson City Facebook page.

Burial will be in the priests’ section of Resurrection Cemetery in Jefferson City.

Memorials are suggested to Catholic Charities of Central and Northern Missouri, 1015 Edmonds St, Jefferson City, MO 65109.

Services entrusted to Trimble Funeral Homes – Jefferson City.   trimblefunerals.com

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Visitation: Monday, September 15, 2025 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Cathedral of St. Joseph
2215 West Main Street
Jefferson City, Missouri 65109


Vigil Service: Monday, September 15, 2025 7:00 pm

Cathedral of St. Joseph
2215 West Main Street
Jefferson City, Missouri 65109


Mass of Christian Burial: Tuesday, September 16, 2025 10:00 am

Cathedral of St. Joseph
2215 West Main Street
Jefferson City, Missouri 65109


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  1. With deep respect and gratitude for the years of friendship and support you will always be in our prayers.

  2. Grateful for his pastoral kindness to the Sisters of Our Lady of Peace and to myself. He was a gentle shepherd.

  3. We are saddened by the passing of bishop Gaydos. My father (who passed in 2013) and he were the best of friends. I remember having lots of priests over for dinner growing up because my dad had been in the seminary and had met so many wonderful people that he remained friends with even after he left. I always remember Bishop Gaydos being full of life as you opened the door he would grab and hug you pick you up and swing you around and make you feel like the most special person in the world. I had three siblings (I being the oldest) so I remember what a special time it was when we had him over. He and my mom would make homemade pesto that is still the best I’ve ever eaten. Bishop Gaydos just had a way about him. You couldn’t help but smile when you saw that big grin at the door. And you knew you were in for a fun night. I also think back to when I called him and told him my dad was dying. He was very broken up, but said unfortunately, he wouldn’t be able to make the funeral because there was a youth rally in Kansas City that Saturday. So we are all at the wake on Friday getting ready to start and if you knew my dad at all you knew that he would say “well I guess we should say the rosary first” about pretty much anything we were about to do. Well, right as we’re beginning to start here comes Bishop Gaydos through the door with that gleaming smile to say the rosary one last time with my dad. He drove from Kansas City to St. Louis and back to Kansas City in one day, just to say the rosary with my dad. That’s the kind of man that Bishop Gaydos was. We will miss him dearly and never forget the kindness he always showed us. I know he is with my dad now, the two of them sipping homemade wine and catching up. Godspeed Bishop Gaydos, we will never forget you. Rest in holy peace.

  4. Bishop Gaydos became a life friend when we met him when Fr Diddens celebrated the Mass and marriage of my brother, Dr Dennis & Mary McCaffrey in 1973 and grieved with him at the loss of Fr Deddins in 1982. We were then guided by Msgr,Gaydos when became our parish, St Gerard Majella’s Pastor. We then enjoyed celebrating with him as he became Archbishop of Jefferson City. These last couple decades, we enjoyed his friendship at the Knights of the Holy Sepulcher’s yearly conferences. We will miss him, yet know he now stands as one of Christ’s Faithfull Priests in the Holy Order of Melchizedek. All Praise and Thanks to You Lord for his life.


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