August 30, 1946 ~ December 3, 2016
John Kurtis Wahlbrink, age 70, of Jefferson City, MO, beloved brother, uncle and friend, passed away Saturday December 3, 2016 at the Hospice Center of Harry S. Truman Memorial Veterans' Hospital in Columbia.
He was born August 30, 1946, in St. Louis, to the late Kenneth John and June Marie Kersting Wahlbrink.
Kurt cared little about an obituary but his story is shared in his honor. He grew up in St. Louis with all its traditions, played baseball and basketball in school, and golf throughout and beyond. He was a 1964 honors graduate of Pattonville High School, and in 1968 received a BA in History from the University of Missouri Columbia.
He served in the U.S. Army from 1969-1971. His aptitude for foreign languages led him to be trained at The Defense Language Institute at Ft. Bliss, TX. While deployed, Kurt attained the rank of Sergeant First Class, serving as a Vietnamese language interpreter on helicopter missions and in remote villages. He was a Bronze Star recipient.
Following military service Kurt returned to the MU School of Law, received his Juris Doctor Degree in 1974, and became a member of the Missouri Bar Assn. He later completed a Master's Degree in English History at UMSL. His career included contract law and general counsel for Corrigan Company, and for Cupples, Inc., working with legal teams for major construction projects including the World Trade Center. Following his retirement, he taught English as a Second Language, and worked for the US Census Bureau. He enjoyed many travels. For most of his life, he resided in St. Louis, but also in LaJolla, CA, Conyers, GA, and in later years, Jefferson City. Kurt was an adoring uncle to a fortunate two. Like many others he rarely spoke about his time in Vietnam, but was proud to be a U.S. Army Veteran. He was quietly proud as well, to have sustained his fight against alcohol.
Kurt traveled to Estes Park, CO to celebrate his 70th birthday with his transplanted family, and soon after accepted a devastating diagnosis with dignity, thinking of others over self until his final days. He will be sadly missed by his family and dear friends for his warmth and wit, his kind and giving heart, for his frequent surprises including his favorite "As Seen on TV" gifts, for his humble intellect, and for his deep patriotism. Just prior to entering hospice care, he cast his ballot with concern but also great hope for the country he loved so much.
Besides his parents, Kurt was preceded in death by an infant sister, Kristine Marie. He is loved dearly and survived by his sister Kay Miller and her husband Bill, nephew Ben Miller, niece Kate Rusch and her husband Steve, and a great-nephew due in December. With deep gratitude for the miracle of life, we say goodbye to one very special family member as we welcome another.
A private Celebration of Life is planned in Kurt's honor.
Arrangements are under the direction of Dulle-Trimble Funeral Home, with assistance by The Reverend David Henry of First Presbyterian Church, Jefferson City.
If desired, memorial contributions may be made to The Harry S. Truman Memorial Veterans' Hospital CLC/Hospice Unit, 800 Hospital Dr., Columbia, MO 65201, where Kurt received compassionate care during his final days.
Those wishing to email tributes or condolences to the family may do so at the www.dulletrimble.com website.
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Kay I am so honored that I got to spend a few minutes with Kurt before he passed and to hold his hand and to let him know he will be missed. He was such a joy to be around always bringing someone yes even me a candy bar when he came back from shopping. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers and Kurt will live on in your new grand baby. He will be missed by the residents at Chapel Hill he will always hold a special place in my heart….
Kay, I was so sorry to learn of Kurt’s passing. I have such fond memories of Kurt during junior high and high school. We had many classes together and I was always in awe of his quiet intellect. I was not surprised to read of his many accomplishments. He was very sweet, a quality he tried his best to hide behind his wry demeanor. I loved his smile — probably because he didn’t give them away easily. I’ve often wished over the years that I’d had chance to sit down and have a good conversation with Kurt as adults. I’m sure it would have have been very enlightening. So now I will tell you and your family what I never had a chance to tell Kurt . . . he was a very special guy who I loved and admired and always remembered. My sincere condolences to you and your family. Judy Upson Eaton
Dear Kay,
I just learned of Kurt’s passing and am so sad to hear about this. Over all these years since college he has never been far from my thoughts. We saw each other a few times, but it has been many years since our last visit. I actually tried to find you and your parents four or five years ago, and did speak to your dad. I learned shortly after that that your dad passed.
I am so sorry for your losses over these last few years and would love to be able to communicate with you.
(Hoping you remember me! Kurt and I dated for 3 years during college)
I loved your family and have so many fond memories.
Elaine Levin Unell
(If you wish, I can be contacted at eunell@aol.com)
Dear Kay,
I just learned of Kurt’s passing and am so sad to hear about this. Over all these years since college he has never been far from my thoughts. We saw each other a few times, but it has been many years since our last visit. I actually tried to find you and your parents four or five years ago, and did speak to your dad. I learned shortly after that that your dad passed.
I am so sorry for your losses over these last few years and would love to be able to communicate with you.
(Hoping you remember me! Kurt and I dated for 3 years during college)
I loved your family and have so many fond memories.
Elaine Levin Unell
(If you wish, I can be contacted at eunell@aol.com)
Thank you, Judy. He was a special guy for sure, and your description of him from Pattonville days held true throughout his life. I so appreciate your sentiments, we miss him so much. Best wishes to you. Kay
Thank you, Debbie. I’m so glad you got to see Kurt again before he passed away. I have appreciated your support, and your friendship, so much! Kay
Hi Elaine, of course I remember you! So many fond memories. It was so nice to see your note, means so much. Losing Kurt has been really difficult. I hope you and your family are well. Thank you so much for taking the time to connect, I will email soon. Kay
The recent Bar Journal carried the sad news of Kurt’s death. It really saddened me. I had the privilege of being Kurt’s roommate for a while in law school. Those are some of my best memories. I can’t tell you how many times I have tried to find out about him after he left St. Louis. I recognize have no words that will comfort you in this loss. Kurt was a man who had a positive and lasting influence on me. I will always thank him for that.